Heath Ledger's death belongs with family
Posted by Lorrie LynchIn this era of instant communication it took one hour and 16 minutes this afternoon from the time Heath Ledger was found dead by a housekeeper until his death was announced to the world by the Associated Press. The journalist in me approves but the mother in me finds it unspeakably sad that Ledger's family got so little time. One hour and 16 minutes is not long enough to be alone with your shock, your grief and your questions, or to hold tight the others in your circle who care for the man as a son, a friend, a father, not just as the actor, the talent.
In just two hours after his death, Ledger's obituary was ready with a list of his credits and his girlfriends but, of course, no cause of death or any reasonable explanation for why a man with extraordinary ability to act on screen and a two-year-old daughter to brighten his life would wind up dead on a dreary Tuesday afternoon in January.
There are lots of questions to consider in the days ahead and an autopsy tomorrow might begin to answer them. I'm as curious as the rest of those who followed his life and his work. I thought he was brilliant in I'm Not There and looked forward to seeing his performance as the Joker in The Dark Knight. But tonight, I'm sorry his family can't have him to themselves.



Comments (5)
I hope he gets the Oscar tonight!! I have a little girl and cannot imagine her without her parent. He is so missed!!!
i don`t understand, but TY
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We are friends of Kim and his family. We called him the moment we heard the tragic news. Unfortunately he had just gotten word a couple of minutes prior to our call.
He and his son were very close.
To find out via the media that your son has died is a shame.
At this time they just need to be left alone to grieve. All of Heath's family are wonderful people full of love and kindness.
If you want to do something for Heath, send his family and close friends strength, hope and love.
I have never read your column but must say that was the classiest and most respectable thing I have read so far! We are fans of the actor and cannot begin to imagine the pain his family must be feeling right now and the battle they have ahead of them. He will not be forgotten. We pray for his entire family and especially his little girl.Thank you for your positive message.
Lorrie, you are the best. Your remarks brought tears to my eyes, you are so right.